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3 truth about men you wont believe

Post by butterfly on Tue Feb 10, 2009 7:45 pm

TRUTH #1: Men Don't Need To Chase

It's been said many times by many people that
men need to be made to chase a woman in order
to want her and commit wholeheartedly.

Not true.

In fact, this is plain wrong.

Rather than wanting to "chase" a woman,
men are humans first.

Which means...

They want and need to feel a deep, emotional
level of attraction for a woman if they are going
to be moved to want bigger and better things with
you in their life.

That everyday "Physical Attraction" a man can
feel for any cute woman who walks by is not
enough, and will never be enough to make him want
something more than a casual fling.

Long story short -

Men can and will want to get close to you even
if they just feel this Physical Attraction for
you - and you'll likely have a hard time figuring
out if they are or aren't feeling that deeper and
more intense and lasting Emotional Attraction.

Not to mention, a man will get easily "bored"
with you and be lazy about a relationship or any
kind of commitment if he's not feeling this
Emotional Attraction for you.

So what is Emotional Attraction?

Emotional attraction goes way beyond what a
woman looks like, what she says or how successful
she is.

If a man senses that a woman knows what she
wants and isn't afraid to go after it, and that
she has certain "standards" of what she will or
won't put up with from a man, then he will feel
incredibly drawn to her.

It has nothing to do with playing GAMES or
pretending to be "hard to get."

If you think that men just want to "chase" a
woman and that acting or being "unavailable" is a
turn-on for him, then I have to tell you right
now, you're not going to get far with a man.

What works to keeping a man interested in you
date after date, week after week, is something
magical that can only happen if he's feeling
emotional attraction for you.

TRUTH #2: Men Feel Emotions Just Like Women

Believe it not, men are pretty sensitive.

It's just how they handle what they feel that
makes them hard to connect with about it, and
hard to understand -

Unless you know what's going on with how
men handle these things in the first place.

Men have a hard time dealing with
strong emotions from women.

So you know...in a recent groundbreaking study
of how couples interact when in conflict, it was
discovered that men often LOOK detached or
withdrawn because they feel intensely STRESSED by
the argument.

It's not that they're more "in control."

On the contrary - they feel LESS in control.

So they withdraw in order to try and cope.

Fascinating.

One of the things men often say to women when
there's a conflict or tension in the relationship
is, "why are you being so dramatic?"

Annoying, right?

That's his way of saying, "This is getting too
intense and I don't know how to handle it."


TRUTH #3: Men Want Relationships

Men want to be in a relationship, and they
have a strong desire to feel recognized as a great
partner by their women.

Have you ever accused a man of being "not
ready" for a relationship?

Here's a mind-blowing statistic: WOMEN (not
men) break off relationships or file for divorce
70% of the time.

That means that women are the ones initiating
the end of a relationship much more often than
men.

If that surprises you, you may also be
surprised to know that a man enjoys being in
committed, loving relationships as much
as a woman does.

AS LONG AS IT DOESN'T FEEL HARD TO HIM.

If you give a man the impression that he can't
please you no matter WHAT he does, or that
everything he does is pointless because he can't
do ANYTHING right, then guess what?

He's going to wonder if he's the right partner
for you, and he's going to begin to doubt whether
or not he should even continue the relationship.

Maybe you're saying, "But I don't do that!"

It's true. You may not even be aware that
you're doing this.

But there are certain words and phrases that
communicate this to a man whether you're aware of
it or not.

Instead, when you show a man that you trust him
to be a good partner to you, you will actually
inspire him and trigger his devotion and
attraction for you.
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Re: 3 truth about men you wont believe

Post by diez4u on Wed Feb 11, 2009 1:56 pm

Lolz everything seems like true to me Neutral

Thanks for sharing butter its helpful for girls Razz
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Post by Ronal-wen on Wed Feb 11, 2009 5:39 pm

nice post butterfly
thanks for sharing with us Very Happy

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