How to Cope with Difficult People Who Always Want More

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How to Cope with Difficult People Who Always Want More

Post by mr.banker on Mon Apr 06, 2009 8:28 am

There are some people that always want to have more at work. They want to take advantage of all that they can
get out of you. This is not unusual and you will find that it is happening more and more as you work. There are
difficult people out there that always want to have more but do not want to work for it. You will find these
people not only at work, but at home as well. It is frustrating but you need to find a way to cope with it so that
you can avoid stressing out over it.

How to Cope with Difficult People Who Always Want More

It is not unusual for you to start to feel like you are being pulled in all direction both at work and at home. It is
not uncommon for some to start feeling stressed over this problem. However there are things that you can do
to make this situation better and to let those people see that you are and that you are not going to accept this
type of behavior. You have the right to stand up for who you are and what you want for your life.

You will have difficult people at home all the time. You will see that your children, spouse and even parents
always want more from you. You may feel like you are being pulled in all directions and this can be hard for
anyone one to handle. It is not always fun to feel like you have to do everything for everyone all the time. You
need to put an end to it so that you are feeling better about yourself too.

When you have people at home always wanting more out of you, you should tell them how you feel. Let them
know that you are doing all that you can and that they have to have some kind of responsibility as well. You
should get them to realize that you are not going to always be there to take care of everything for them and
that they have to do it on their own at some point in time. There are ways that you can do this just by telling
them how you are feeling.

The same will go for when you are at work. You will have people pulling at you and wanting you to do things for
them as well. You can start to feel overwhelmed like you are not able to take on the challenges of everything
that is asked of you. It can be a very unhealthy and stressful time in your life and you need to make sure that
you are limiting the amount of stress you have in your life.

Do not be taken advantage of no matter what. You have to stand up for yourself and let others know that you are
doing all that you can. Tell them to stop wanting more and maybe you should start to ask for more out of them.
Do not worry about hurting someone’s feelings. You are entitled to let others know that you are important so
that you are not being taken advantage of. There are people that are close to you that may ask too much from
you and you have to set boundaries. This is going to give you more respect for yourself and give you the
ambition to move on to something that you want to do. You will feel better about it when you are done and
maybe the people in your life that always want more will back off and start to appreciate what you do for them.
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Re: How to Cope with Difficult People Who Always Want More

Post by evilzevilz on Mon Apr 06, 2009 11:24 am

nyc sharing bro..... keep rocking gunner
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